INTRODUCTION: THESE BRAINS ARE MADE FOR MISTAKING
Unintentional Mistakes We Can Learn From
Why People Make Mistakes
Freedom to Make Mistakes Means Freedom to Grow
Mistake-Making as a Mindful Practice
Choose Your Own Adventure: A Note About Using This Book
ESSAY 1: MISTAKES COST MORE FOR SOME
Not All Mistakes Are Equal
Acknowledging Our Mistakes’ Impacts on Students
The Consequences Our Students and Families Face Vary Widely
Apologies Need to Be Equity Minded
Where We Are in the Power Hierarchy Matters
Misusing Our Power by Shaming Students
Tracing the Path of Our Mistakes with Timelines
ESSAY 2: OTHER PEOPLE’S MISTAKES
Recognizing the Desire to Judge Others
New Narratives for Mistake-Making
Mistakes That Trigger Rage and Shame
Combatting Cancel Culture
ESSAY 3: MARTYRS MAKE MORE MISTAKES
The Teacher Martyr Makes Mistakes, Avoids Risk, and Observes Less
Setting Healthy Boundaries
Self-Care Habits That Give Students Our Best Self
Are You Meeting Your Own Basic Needs?
There’s a Reason We’re All So Tired
ESSAY 4: COMMON COGNITIVE ERROR Fear Makes Us Vulnerable to Mistakes
How Fear Negatively Impacts Decision-Making
Fear as Insight Giver
Understanding Fear at the Cultural Level
Helping Students with Their Fear
Story Editing Fear and Mistakes
Story Editing in the Classroom
Opening Possibilities by Letting Go
ESSAY 5: COMMON COGNITIVE ERROR “Everything Will Be OK”
What “Everything Will Be OK” Sometimes Really Means
Bringing a Sense of Inquiry to What Isn’t OK
Reducing the Chance of Mistakes to Almost Zero
ESSAY 6: THOMASSONS Maintaining Mistakes for the Wrong Reasons
Mistakes Hide False Beliefs
Evaluate by Examining Purpose: Does Form Fit Function?
Be Vigilant: Challenge the Feel-Good Thomassons
ESSAY 7: A MISTAKE-WELCOMING CLASSROOM CULTURE
The Balance of Belief and Doubt
Making Mistakes Part of Our Curriculum
The Value of (Some) Intentional Mistakes
Texts Are Our Co-Teachers
Failure and Reflection
The Space We Hold Is the Space Students Grow Into
MISTAKES LESSONS:
1. Understanding the Word Mistake (Grades K–3)
2. Defining the Word Mistake (Grades 4–12)
3. “But I Didn’t Mean To!” Intent Versus Impact (Grades K–3)
4. Intent Versus Impact (Grades 4–12)
5. Mistakes Box (Grades K–3)
6. Mistakes Résumé (Grades 4–12)
7. Types of Mistakes (Grades 2–12)
8. How Not to Repeat a Mistake (Grades 3–12)
EPILOGUE: IT’S WHAT WE DO NEXT THAT MATTERS